Child custody
Custody, in plain language.
General information about how custody usually works. Terms and rules differ by state, so please talk with a lawyer about yours.
What custody means
Custody usually covers two things: where a child lives and who makes major decisions about school, health care and religion. Some states use other words, such as conservatorship or parenting time. A child can live mostly with one parent and decisions can still be shared.
Parenting plans
Many parents agree on a written parenting plan, and a court can approve it. A plan commonly covers:
- A weekly schedule and a holiday schedule
- How pickups, drop-offs and travel work
- How parents share information and decisions
- How the plan is reviewed as children grow
What a court looks at
Courts focus on what is in the child’s interest. That can include each parent’s ability to care for the child, the child’s routine, school and community ties, and safety. The exact factors depend on the state.
Changing an order
Parents can ask a court to change an order when circumstances change in a meaningful way, such as a move or a change in a child’s needs. Until a court approves a change, the current order applies.
Where to start
- Write down the schedule you have nowInclude what works and what does not.
- Gather any orders or agreementsA copy helps a lot at a first call.
- Request a consultationWe explain the usual process where you live.